Church of the Holy City

The Tie that Binds

The Tie that Binds
Rev. Dr. David J. Fekete
July 10, 2011

Joshua 24:14-27 John 19:25-27 Psalm 26

Today I would like to reflect on the use of the church congregation in spiritual life. I believe that the church community, the congregation plays a vital role in our faith journey. So I chose Bible passages that relate to the formation of a congregation.
In our reading from Joshua, Joshua calls together all the tribes of Israel and challenges them. He tells them all the wondrous things that God has done for them. Then he asks them if they want to follow Yahweh or the other gods from Mesopotamia or Egypt. They all agree to follow Yahweh. This is one example of what a congregation is. It is a coming together of people all in the name of God. God formed the center of the life of Israel. It is their relationship with God that served as the binding force for their whole society. And this is what a congregation is. We all come here to this church in God’s name, to worship and connect with God together.
In our New Testament reading we have a slightly different approach to forming a congregation. Jesus is on the cross, and gathered at His feet are His mother, His mother’s sister, Mary, the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene. Also there is the disciple whom Jesus loved, which I take to be John. Jesus tells His mother that John is now her son. And He tells John that now Mary is his mother. This points to a relationship among Jesus’ followers. He is forming a bond of family between Mary and John. This is another way to view the congregation. It is a bond of love among the members and friends of the church. As Mary and John now become family, a church congregation is in many ways a family relationship among all the congregants.
So we could say that a congregation is a kind of sacred family. We are family in the good will we share for each other when we come together, and in the mutual support we give to one another. And we are a sacred family because we come together in the name of God.
I think that there is a power that grows when we come together to worship. Each of us alone can indeed approach God, but it just doesn’t feel the same as when we come together as a congregation. I think that there is a kind of resonance that occurs when we all come together in a group to focus on God. Somehow, all of our holy feelings reinforce each other and the whole church becomes filled with God’s presence and a deep feeling of love comes over the collective body. I suggest that this experience can aid us in our regeneration.
It is difficult to put into words what I’m talking about. But I have a couple metaphors that will help us to reflect on the uses that a congregation fulfils in our regeneration. One of these metaphors was in Rev. Gabriella Cahaley’s ordination speech at Convention this year. She is a life guard and told us about a life-saving technique. The technique she told us about was the human chain. When someone is floundering in deep water, a life-guard won’t go out alone to rescue the victim. Instead, they form a human chain. Someone stands in shallow water, and others join hands in a chain that reaches out to the floundering victim. It is dangerous for a person to go out all alone to rescue a victim. It is safe to rescue the individual by forming a human chains of hands all joined together.
I like this metaphor for the way a congregation works. We are religious because we are all in need of God’s salvation. And a church congregation is just that chain of hands that join together to bring God’s salvation to us all. In AA, we all join hands at the end of the meeting. The leader then says, “Hold onto the hand next to you, it may be the hand that saves your life.” Without the mutual support we give each other in the AA program, the power of alcohol would be too great for us to overcome alone. Likewise, without the mutual support that we give to one another as we worship and share our lives together, the temptations of the world may be too great for us to withstand all alone. Without the mutual support we find in a congregation, where would we be? Would we find that feeling of love, peace, and God’s presence so powerfully all alone? Members of this church have told me that when they have been forced to be away from the church, their spiritual life suffers. And when they come back, they feel so much stronger and more spiritually fit. How much do all those things that make up a congregation mean to us! A smile, the socializing at coffee hour, the knowledge that people are ready to help us when we are in need, the listening when we are in distress. A congregation is a vital life-line in God’s work of salvation in this world.
Another metaphor that comes to mind is a story I remember from my childhood. A father was on his death-bed and called his children together. He was concerned that the family would fall apart after his demise so he gave them a lesson to remember. He told one of his children to go out and gather a bunch of sticks. The child brought the sticks to him. He then told his children to break the sticks one at a time. This was easily done and soon the room was full of broken sticks. Then he told his child to bring in another bunch of sticks. This time he told him to tie the sticks all together in a bundle. “Try to break the sticks, now,” he said. His children took the bundle across their knees, stomped on them, hit them on the wall but they were unable to break the sticks when they were all bundled together.
We are all here for the same purpose. We are here to worship God and share fellowship in Christ’s name. Together, we reinforce each other’s faith. Together we are like the sticks tied in a bundle. With mutual support for one another, our journey to God will be greatly facilitated.
I would now like to do something that I haven’t done here yet. I would like to lead the church in a guided meditation.
I ask you to close your eyes.
Now imagine Christ standing in the center of the altar with His arms reaching out. Think about Christ’s qualities–His forgiveness, His unfailing love for the whole human race, and for each of you individually.
Now think of Christ surrounded by a dazzling golden light.
Now think of that golden light flowing out from the Christ and filling the whole church.
Now think of the positive feeling that you feel for this church. You may wish to remember specific good moments that you have experienced in this church. Now call to mind the love that you feel for this church, the love that makes you come back week after week.
Now while you are feeling that love for this church, think of the people you know in it, one by one, and hold them in that feeling of love you have for this church.
Then think of yourself as one person in the whole congregation.
Now think of where we are in the order of service today and open your eyes.
When Swedenborg talks about heaven, he compares it to a human body. He talks about angels of the heart, of the lungs, of the brain, and of other organs. Everyone in heaven is unique and each individual angel has a unique gift to bring to the whole of heaven. And so it is with the church. We are all individuals. Some of us are very different from others. And yet each of us has a special gift we bring to the church that no one else can bring. And our very diversity perfects this congregation.
This church is a vital and living organism. And each and every one of you have your own contribution to bring to the church body. Let us celebrate our walk together in this congregation.

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Church of the Holy City
9119-128A Avenue
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